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If you pay attention to the media's grim coverage of the fight against Alzheimer's, you might believe that we are losing the battle without a glimmer of hope in sight. But as more and more research is proving, prevention may be easier than you think.

In 100 Simple Things You Can Do to Prevent Alzheimer's and Age-Related Memory Loss, Jean Carper lays out an easy-to-follow action plan for warding off cognitive decline, based on the most comprehensive review of the research on brain health and aging to date. Whiie some of the "simple things" found in the book, such as not smoking, exercising and getting plenty of omega-3s, may be common knowledge, many others are lesser-known strategies for maintaining brain health, such as being more ambitious, treating sleep apnea and watching your waistline.

Being predisposed to Alzheimer's herself, as one of the 77 million Americans carrying the ApoE4 gene, Carper contends that her fate is in her own hands. She believes that one cannot merely sit around and wait for a cure, but should, rather, learn about the scientifically proven ways to avoid the disease. No matter what your age, this book will inspire you to take action towards protecting yourself and your loved ones from the devastating effects of cognitive decline. ... Read more

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Mrs Linda Greenberg
I advise EVERYONE to buy this terrific book!Author Jean Carper writes clearly about her subject, and bases her findings on her years of research and long experience in the field of wellness and nutrition. The 100 things she suggests the reader do truly ARE simple and eminently sensible.You will make a serious mistake if you don't buy this book and read it cover to cover as soon as you get it.Then tell you family and friedns to buy and read it.There's a good chance you will extend your health and life by doing so.
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A book of encouragement of how one man of faith faced the oncoming darkness of Alzheimer's disease. In a powerful story of courage and faith, Davis shows how God gives strength and grace. ... Read more

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Good Read!
This was a book that I had to read for a class (adulthood and aging). It was a good read, but made me cry! I think that aging is something that not too many people plan for - but this book really helped to open my eyes to the thought that Alzheimer's could happen to anyone! I really appreciated how honest and frank the author was about his disease.

Don't judge a book by its title....
I was led to believe that this book was about Alzheimer's Disease. I was extremely disappointed by the book, and wish I had not wasted my money. I found only 2 chapters that really had any significance as far as reading about the disease. Instead I read about the author's problems with faith as he progressed through the disease. Also, I could have cared less about his "exalted" past and what a great guy he had been until he became ill.

I am sure the author had honest intentions.However, this is a book extolling his faith, which may be helpful for those who need a spiritual boost.If you are trying to learn about AD, search elsewhere.

One of the best books ever on Alzheimer's
This is perhaps the first book written by an Alzheimer's victim while he still could communicate by computer (speaking or handwriting had already left his abilities). Because he was such a student and avid reader all his life, he tells what Alzheimer's is like from the 'inside.' Until he wrote, we largely relied on caregivers' experiences in caring for a loved one to describe the journey from an outsider's perspective.

I gave this book to a person who had had multiple little strokes, and after reading it, she agreed about the 'black hole' described by the author. So, in dementia memory loss, there are some similarities between the types, though from different causes.

I can't recommend this book too highly. I recently purchased this copy to give to a woman who's in the frustrations of early Alzheimer's in her husband. I began and led an Alzheimer's support group for 14 years when Alzheimer's was just emerging into the foreground back in the 80's, and when this book came out, it was a real God-send and tool for families. When you can get into someone else's skin, it gives a whole new meaning to why they do and behave, and makes caregiving expectations more reasonable. Not necessarily easier, but more reasonable.

A Rare and Amazing Account
This is a very rare account because most people are probably so angry and despairing when they realize they have Alzheimer's that they retreat inside themselves or rage as their memory slowly goes. Davis exhibited a great deal of courage as he wrote a detailed account of the advance of the disease. One reviewer was angry that he included his faith in the account. Surely anyone who is facing a terminal disease has the perfect right to include their spiritual beliefs in any memoir they decide to write. This is a powerful book and any family with a member facing Alzheimer's would do well to read this book and find courage and comfort.

Touching
Hearing about the decline into Alzheimer's Disease from the person suffering from the illness is very enlightening. This book is easy to read and very informative. You won't be left untouched as you walk on this journey with the author. ... Read more

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Q&A
Is Alzheimer's disease hereditary? Are there memory exercises I should be doing now? Is all dementia Alzheimer's, or are there other forms? How do I make time for both my parent with Alzheimer's and my children? How long can someone live with this disease?

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Still searching for Answers
You've likely read my review for other books addressing Dementia, of which there are many.This one is not bad, but does not address those thornier questions such as how the caregiver deals with his/her own grief, anger, remorse, guilt, etc.Few books do, but The 36 Hour Day is among the better ones in this attempt.

Excellent Information all in one book
This book has all the answers you could ever want to know about Alzheimers. It's reader friendly and consise. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is a caregiver or a friend or family member of a loved one with Alzheimers.

An extremely helpful resource
This book has helped me and my family in so many ways.My mother-in-law was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's.The information given by Dr. Atkins really helped us understand this horrible disease and also lessened our frustrations.If you are touched by Alzheimer's, you need this book.Teri Leyh ... Read more

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Presentation of a model of care for Alzheimer's patients stressing empathy and friendship, for nurses, adult day center staff, and families of patients. Emphasizes the positive aspects of situations involving Alzheimer's care rather than patients' victimization. Softcover. ... Read more

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New Approach of care for Alzheimers
This is a really great text outlining a different slant on how to care for the Alzheimers disorder.I love the concept utilized in this book, and have seen it at work in a local Adult Day-Services center.As a retired nursing professional I would like to see more use of this type of therapeutic care for the mentally impaired.I hope that the book will help to educate those who care for the aged, and AD persons.The families of those patients could be helped in their respite care.

Nothing New
There are many books on the approach to Alzheimer's, of which this is one.Despite its attempt to present information for the care giver in an innovative format, there is little new here and compares unfavorably to what I consider the Gold Standard, The 36 Hour Day.

Excellent resource and training manual
I read this book as part of training to lead activities in an adult day center. It is thorough, concise and very reader friendly. This is an excellent resource for training programs and for anyone wanting to develop skills in working with persons with Alzheimer's Disease or dementia. This book is a must have.

You gotta have friends...
This past semester, my seminary (Christian Theological Seminary) was honoured to host Virginia and Wayne Bell as they led a conference on Spirituality and Aging. As we approach a time in which the issues of aging will take increasing prominence, as the baby-boomers reach a collectively-older age than any generation in history has reached, the issues surrounding health care for the elderly are of primary importance, and part of that health is mental (which includes spiritual) health. The Bells have spent much time investigating and helping in the area of Alzheimer's, a disease that affects mind, body and spirit. Virginia Bell, together with a colleague, David Troxel, collaborated on two books (one of which is the the subject of this review) presenting an innovative way for care of those with Alzheimer's: `The Best Friends Approach to Alzheimer's Care'.

Virginia Bell, MSW, is currently Program Consultant with the Lexington/Bluegrass Chapter of the Alzheimer's Association. She is a graduate of Transylvania University and the University of Kentucky, and has lectured widely at national and international conference. Her co-author, David Troxel, works with the Santa Barbara chapter of the Alzheimer's Association.

`"The Best Friends Approach to Alzheimer's Care" reflects a growing optimism in the field of Alzheimer's care that much can be done to improve the lives of people with the disease and to transform caregiving from a terrible burden to care that is manageable. This book represents the development of the first comprehensive model of care, which is easy to understand and learn.'

At the start of the book, Bell and Troxel describe the various experiences of those with Alzheimer's. By looking at the depression, confusion, and detachment that those with Alzheimer's experience, the caregiver gains a greater understanding and compassion for those suffering. Perhaps the most important key insight comes from a nurse and teacher, Rebecca, who began to experience symptoms of Alzheimer's at age 59.

`I dislike social workers, nurses and friends who do not treat me as a real person.'

Despite her slowly declining cognitive abilities, she is still able to sense that people are regarding her differently, as a patient, as an object, as a 'third person' rather than a real person.

Persons with Alzheimer's experience loss, sadness, confusion, isolation and loneliness, fear, frustration, anxiety, paranoia, anger, and embarrassment. The Best Friends model takes all of these into account as a normal part of everyone's life.

The second chapter gives a basic overview of Alzheimer's, giving symptoms, diagnosis, services, caregiving issues, and research news. The Best Friends model requires no specialised medical or scientific knowledge -- an appendix is included in the book for those who wish to pursue those topics in more detail.

The following chapters develop the aspects of care along the Best Friends model. This requires first assessing the strengths and abilities of the person receiving care (and this may require a daily update). An understanding of what persons with Alzheimer's may require is included as an `Alzheimer's Disease Bill of Rights'. These are important, and often overlooked, so I shall reprint them here:

Every person diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease or a related disorder deserves the following rights:

- To be informed of one's diagnosis
- To have appropriate, ongoing medical care
- To be productive in work and play for as long as possible
- To be treated like an adult, not like a child
- To have expressed feelings taken seriously
- To be free from psychotropic medications, if possible
- To live in a safe, structured, and predictable environment
- To enjoy meaningful activities that fill each day
- To be outdoors on a regular basis
- To have physical contact, including hugging, caressing, and hand-holding
- To be with individuals who know one's life story, including cultural and religious traditions
- To be cared for by individuals who are well trained in dementia care

A key point to being a Best Friend is that the caregiver becomes a memory aid to the person -- friends know each others' histories. Being reminded of past accomplishments, family connections, personal beliefs and traditions helps tremendously. It gets them involved in their own lives again.

Friends do many things: they share history, they do things together, they communicate, they build self-esteem, they laugh often, they work at the relationship, and they are equals. These carry over as key concepts in the Best Friends model. Bell and Troxel go into some detail about how to handle situations for the full-time caregiver, the volunteer, and for those who visit persons with Alzheimer's in care. Specific situations and general principles are presented in a clear, intelligible manner with great application potential.

An important part of the process of understanding and dealing with those with Alzheimer's is to understand oneself. Thus, there is a section on Being One's Own Best Friend. How do we react and respond? Do we give ourselves enough care? How can we care for others if we do not care for ourselves? How do we respect the needs and desires of those we care for while recognising and respecting our own needs? These are important questions, and Bell and Troxel address it by illustrating the relationship between Rebecca and Jo, her Best Friend.

`Because any of us can be touched by Alzheimer's disease, can have bad things happen to us, our friends, or our families, the ultimate message the authors wish to convey is this: We should treat everyone important to us as we would our own Best Friend.'

Philosophy of Care
Seeing the Helping Hands Adult Day Care program, which is the fruit of the philosophy of this work, was a life changing event for me. The caring and love shown by the staff of Helping Hands are living testiment to the dedication of workers to improve the quality of life for clients affected by the devastation of Alzheimer's Disease and other dementias. If all facilities,both assisted living and nursing homes, truly invested in this approach, life would indeed be different for the persons affected by this disease and their caregivers. A definite must for those struggling with the problems of caregiving those with Alzheimer's disease. ... Read more

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Offering an enlightened new approach to Alzheimer's care A Dignified Life will become a practical, life-enhancing resource for anyone faced with the daunting responsibility of caring for someone with Alzheimer's, either at home or a medical facility.

Four million Americans currently suffer from Alzheimer's disease and experts estimate that 22 million people around the world will be so afflicted by 2025. Far too many families are struggling with the emotionally and physically draining responsibility of redefining their relationship with, and caring for, someone who not long ago was a vibrant member of society, yet may not know their own name today.

A Dignified Life helps combat the burnout and frustration that often accompany the task of caring for an Alzheimer's patient. Author David Troxel, an Alzheimer's expert and executive director of the California Central Coast chapter of the Alzheimer's Association, maintains that at its simplest this approach is based on treating the person like a best friend and working from their strengths, not their weaknesses. He explains: "As family members, caregivers and professionals, we have to try to connect with them. People with this disease in some way need someone to be . . . attentive and empathetic--someone who really tries to walk a mile in their shoes."

A Dignified Life goes beyond the typical tips offered by most books and takes advantage of readers' instinctive desire to build friendships and taps into the intuitive aspect of caregiving that is part of our very nature. It provides a complete model for care built around creative and effective communication and meaningful activities and includes touching stories that demonstrate how the Best Friends method continues to improve the lives of both those who have Alzheimer's disease and those who care for them. ... Read more

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ALmost but not quite
This book had a few useful tips but overall I found it only barely useful. It is a rehash of info found nearly everywhere else. It only
touches,lightly, on the deeper problems of caring for a loved one with alzheimers, I.e. Anger, delusions, obsessive compulsive behavior, fears, etc. it is hard to be "best friend" when someone is enraged and threatening to kill you. Granted, these are empty threats and forgotten after a few minutes, but it is still difficult to deal with. OCD is even more difficult when it results in dangerous or difficult to handle behavior.

So, bottom line, I am still looking for more helpful onto and guidance.

a dignified life
Very good to familiarize yourself as to what is coming w/the disease and how to handle difficult situations as they come up.

Best Friends Approach to Caregiving
The underlying concept of the "best friends" approach to Alzheimer's caregiving is to treat another with kindnessand compassion, and this book is a helpful reminder to put caregiving into that framework.Having read many resources about Alzheimer's caregiving, however, I found it a bit general and basic and had hoped for a more in-depth book.Still, it doesn't hurt to be reminded.

Positive Help
Best Friends redefines the role of family "caregivers" as partners rather than supervisors, an approach that gives dignity to the relationship. Reinforced by examples of people with dementia who chose to be identified by their full names and details of their lives, this says fundamentally, "I am a person" not a generic case history.
A Dignified Life provides fun activities for people: real persons in this unusually challenging partnership of Alzheimers or dementia patients and their carers.

Shortly after it had been highly recommended to me by a former Alzheimer's Association executive, I ordered it from Amazon, and read it that the first night it arrived, like a thriller! Compared to reading other books on the topic of Alzheimers, which usually treated both the caregiver and patient as sufferers,threatening a downward spiral, this was a really hopeful and encouraging experience.At my caregiver support groupI spoke about its positive and hopeful approach, and as the book passed around, all took note.It should be one of the first "go to" resources in our repertoire.

Great Read for Caregivers
This book has a lot of helpful advice.There are so many good books on this subject, but one of the most important things a caregiver can learn is compassion for the person with Alzheimer's.We have to try to see it through that person's eyes. ... Read more

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This classic family guide to caring for persons with Alzheimer's disease, related dementia, and memory loss in later life is now available in this user-friendly, oversized mass market edition. Reissue. ... Read more

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36 Hour Day
The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for Persons with Alzheimer Disease, Related Dementing Illnesses, and Memory Loss in Later Life (3rd Edition)
Very informing book on this subject.

good service
we received the books in good condition and very quickly.They are very helpful

RECOMMEND BOOK FOR LOVED ONES TO UNDERSTAND DEMENTA AND ALZHIEMER PATIENT"S
I highly recommend this book. My sister lives in another state
and has dementia. I understand her depression and confusion now
that I read "THE 36 HOUR DAY."

36 Hour Day
My daughter first told me about this book. My wife and I have been
caring for her now deceased father who had Alzheimers, My Mom also has it, and is in a nursing facility. The information in this book is essential for anyone either caring for a loved one that has this devasting disease, or that knows someone who is. It is informative,timely, and concise. It is easy for the layperson to read and understand. I highly recommend it!

For The Entire Family
When our family first learned that our Mother had Alzheimer disease, we were devastated. After we all read "The 36-Hour Day", there was a great deal of relief. Although Alzhemier and other dementing illnesses can seem catastrophic, this book reads like a freindly family doctor givng you straight forward, no-nonsense advice. It covers all aspects of dealing with the family member, from explaining just what dementia is and how it can appear, to how you can deal with it appropriately without losing your patience or embarrasing your family member. Medical help, daily care, medical problems, behavior, mood, legal issues, common compassion and basic 'rules of thumb' are thoroughly covered. Several "examples" of previous family incidents are mentioned with thoughts on how to address each and every one. Great care has been crafted into this book and I highly recommend it. You will feel better, thus making the family member you are helping feel better. ... Read more

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As our understanding of aging and Alzheimer's, and the cultural changes related to these phenomena, grows so do the implications for interior design. Focus on recent innovations in care environments for the aging with a resource dedicated to this topic. This comprehensive book features:

• Coverage of the emerging building types of adult day care and hospice and the increased use of gardens and outdoor space in environments for the aging.
• Material on sustainable design and environmentally friendly building products.
• Design solutions that extend beyond assisted-living facilities and nursing homes as they can be easily adapted for residential use.
• Photographs, line drawings, and a 16-page color insert that bring the material to life.

Order your copy of this book today. ... Read more

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Fabulous reference
I was required by my graduate professor to purchase this book as a course textbook. Mrs. Brawley has done a beyond fabulous job writing a cohesive and easy-to-comprehend book with the aging population in mind. If you are contemplating purchasing this book, I highly recommend it. Even the smallest effort to support our baby-boomers can go a long way and this book goes over what we, as design professionals, should do in order to make them more comfortable and still live fulfilling lives. She also lists many helpful references if you plan on doing more thorough research on the topic.

Great Book
I'm an Interior Design student and I found this book extremely helpful. It haves a great selection of pictures as well as information. It's a great book to have in your design library,specially for Health Care Designers.

Aging & Alzheimers
Excellent background information that gives a solid foundation re: diseases, accidents, aging process and what the results are, including as it relates to designing residential faciliaties.Good photos and LOTS of information.Excellent resource, particularly for the design industry ... Read more

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Expand and enrich your Best Friends activity programming with 149 all-new activities for individuals with dementia. Like the first book, this collection of fun and easy activities will add both meaning and enjoyment to the activities at your adult day center, home care setting, or residential care facility.

Feedback and insights from individuals with early-stage dementia helped shape this new collection, as well as activity suggestions from national and international dementia programs. As a result, the activities include a new focus on diversity and multiculturalism. Also featured are topics of interest to participants in their 50s and 60s, such as the Internet, advocacy, and community service.

Participants, staff, and family members will enjoy fresh ideas for creative art projects, interactive games, and evening activities. New themes to explore in Volume 2 include activities related to the kitchen and food, life story sharing and reminiscence, religious and spiritual traditions, and wellness. Adaptations for people in the early and late stages of Alzheimer s disease, preventive measures to avoid unwanted surprises, and conversation tips make these activities particularly versatile.

Use this resource to extend the benefits you already enjoy from Best Friends programming or discover for the first time how this groundbreaking approach can transform activities and daily interactions. ... Read more

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The author recounts the steps he took to overcome Alzheimer's disease, and recommends a program of vitamin therapy, strict diet, and the avoidance of allergens. ... Read more

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Alzheimers - The health food approach
For:
This book examines the dietary problems that cause alzheimers, and some other common complaints. The author evidently cured himself from a serious case of early onset Alzheimer's, and relates how. He also links diseases with a common cause (e.g. some types of schizophrenia & alzheimer's are linked) and many others.

Against:
The evidence is anecdotal (i.e. experiences "This change cured me") and I would prefer citations of medical research in support of something. If the treatments are as good as implied, a simple trial shopuld prove it.

Amazing
It's hard to believe anyone can reverse Alzheimer's - but look at John Nash in a Beautiful Mind - same concept.If only I had the monetary resources, I would have all the metal taken out of my mother's mouth and I would follow all/most of Warren's other suggestions.Alzheimer's is a hideous thief of one's faculties and dignity.

believing your doctor can cause life-threatening injury, not believing your doctor may avert certain death
Tom Warren's doctors told him to go home and to prepare to die of Alzheimer's Disease.Luckily Warren had the moxie to defy them, and the smarts to educate himself about likely causes of Alzheimer's, (in his case a heavy metal intoxication), and find a doctor willing to believe him.He recovered, and the Witnesses of Aesculapius with whom he had been dealing, were so caught up in their dogmas that they were unable to fathom his recovery; one even accused him of forging an MRI scan.

This book is a must read because it describes an incredible accomplishment, in its right every bit the equal of the exploits of Lewis and Clark, and, more importantly, because it very effectively disabuses all but the dullest of readers of the today's widespread belief in the infallibility of the Gods in White Coats.

Tom Warren had a brain that burned
I first read Tom Warren's book BEATING ALZHEIMER'S in my bioloical dentist's office where I went to have mercury safely removed from my teeth. My regular dentist had poisoned me after drilling into a "silver" mercury filling and allowing me to breathe the mercury vapor. The thing that caught my attention with this book was Tom Warren said his brain burned. My brain also burned after being exposed to the mercury vapor. When I did a heavy metals test with an ACAM doctor, high levels of aluminum also showed up. So I thinkthere is a connection between high levels of mercury and aluminum in the brains of Alzheimer's patients. I also initially lost my memory after exposure to mercury.

Every Alzheimer's patient should read this book to find out that there is hope for Alzheimer's if they will find an alternative doctor to get the toxins out of the body and brain! The first toxin that must be removed is mercury from the teeth, just like Tom Warren did. Read Hal Huggins' book IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD to find out the safe way to remove mercury from teeth.

Patient-driven Medicine
Tom Warren was brave enough to recover from Alzheimer's disease and generous enough to share his approach with others.His book is written with Alzheimer's and schizophrenic patients in mind but has a wealth of information useful for the treatment of many autoimmune diseases.Warren's dual accomplishment is amazing - recovering from Alzheimer's and outlining how others can do so.This book deserves a much wider audience. ... Read more

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Bring out the best in each person with dementia each day with more than 140 versatile, easy-to-implement Best Friends activities. Thousands of caregivers around the world know that providing Best Friends' care improves the quality of life of people with dementia by building on the essential elements of friendship; respect, empathy, support, trust, humor, and sharing time together. Using the Best Friends approach to activities, anyone on staff can turn any interaction with a resident or client into an activity that satisfies essential physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. Each activity contains suggestions for personalizing the activity and matching it to the remaining strengths of the individual to ensure success and reduce challenging behaviors. The Best Friends Book of Alzheimer's Activities is chock full of inspiring and innovative ideas on how to: convert everyday activities into those with "knack"; create new activities out of tried-and-true activities; provide activities between structured programs/events; increase self-esteem; adapt activities for people with late dementia; provide opportunities for connecting to others; create intergenerational experiences; use the person's life story in any activity; make activities out of personal care; conduct activities specifically for men; fill evening hours to alleviate sundowning; provide "take-away" activities for family caregivers to use at home; incorporate exercise into activities; use the Internet to expand and enrich activities. Many activities can be conducted spontaneously, with simple props, engaging older people in meaningful activity for extended periods. Best Friends activities are adult-oriented and flexible enough for staff and residents to add their own ideas. Special features include a list of the latest and most effective resources for activity professionals and helpful tips on communicating with people with dementia. ... Read more

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Best Friends Book of Alzheimer's Activities
As the Executive Director of an assisted living community, I am ultimately responsible for resident care and activities in our dementia unit. The Best Friend approach is the best philosophy around for providing resident care in our setting.The Best Friends Book of Alzheimer's Activities is user friendly; it shows how simple, day to day activities can work to make residents feel a sense of connection and accomplishment.

Activities for the elderly
This book isa great resource for families, friends, and professionals working with elderly individuals in general and especially those with dementia and other memory disorders.It provides excellent activity ideas along with great ideas on modifying activities to increase the impact and benefit for both patients and caregivers.it is an excellent resource for activity departments, therapists working with elderly, organizers for groups of elderly individuals and family members trying to maintain or enhance the lives of their loved ones.

Great Alzheimer's Resource
As an owner of 2 assisted living homes in Arizona, we are always looking for new and innovative ways to incorporate different activities into the residents' day. We ordered the first book in this series to try out the activities. Needless to say, we're ordering the remaining books because it has become such a hit!

Effective,Easy to do, Mind Stimulating Activities for those with Memory Impairments
This book suggests many ideas for activities for people with Alzheimer's disease and related dementias that can help stimulate the mind which is so important to maintain brain function. There is a wide variety to meet most people's interests. Also ways to engage people are discussed.

by Susan Berg author ofAdorable Photographs of Our Baby: Meaningful, Mind Stimulating Activities and More for the Memory Challenged, Their Loved Ones, and Involved Professionals ... Read more

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This groundbreaking work rests on the belief that Alzheimer's is one of several types of dementia and in most cases is avoidable. Rather than being the inevitable result of aging, Mendelson asserts dementia is primarily the result of bad diet, stress, lack of mental and physical exercise, and other lifestyle choices. He offers hope to both patients and their caregivers by recommending vitamins and more that may mitigate or delay the effects of dementia, as well as suggesting lifestyle changes that might help a person avoid dementia altogether. ... Read more

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Mendelson Guides Those of Us with Cognitive Challenges
As a person with early-onset cognitive challenges I so appreciated Dr. Mendelson's approach. He has guided me through a maze of conflicting information. I recommend this book for the most current information on nutraceuticals and vitamins that may be helpful to improve quality of life for those of us with Alzheimer's in our families. I also heard him on Public Radio and I was glad that he values the neuro-protective prescription Selegiline.Beyond Alzheimer's: How to Avoid the Modern Epidemic of Dementia

A choice pick for health collections focusing on senior issues
Is dementia the result of aging, or something more? "Beyond Alzheimer's: How to Avoid the Modern Epidemic of Dementia" is a discussion of the causes of dementia and what leads to it as many Americans enter into their twilight years. Poor conditioning throughout life, Scott D. Mendelson argues, is a root cause to dementia later in life. Discusses the brain and how it matures through life and can be left to wither without the right care, he provides an intriguing read for those who want to keep their body and mind healthy no matter what their age. "Beyond Alzheimer's" is a choice pick for health collections focusing on senior issues.

Avoid the Modern Epidemic of Dementia
Highly recommended for anyone interested in A) the definitions for Alzheimer's, Dementia and related issues, B) the causes of Dementia, and C) the many ways to help prevent and treat dementia. Great for both caregivers and those touched by dementia, as well as the layperson simply interested in enlightening him/herself about the realities of this crippling problem that is becoming more and more prevalent across the globe.

Clear, concise and very informative
I am a Social Worker assisting clients and families affected by dementia.I must say, Beyond Alzheimer's is the best book I have read on this topic.Dr. Mendelson's writing style keeps both the layman and professional in mind. The book provides easy to understand descriptions of the physiology of the brain as we age, causes of dementia, and preventative strategies - including well studied alternative approaches.Beyond Alzheimer's is very well researched, citing the most current data available. It is on the top of my list to recommend to both colleagues and clients.

Scott Mendelson's "Beyond Alzheimers"
Like his previous book "Metabolic Syndrome and Psychiatric Illness, Dr. Mendelson's new book BEYOND ALZHEIMERS - how to avoid the modern epidemic of dementia -ventures with great clarity to new conceptualizations of very important health issues.His insights are remarkable and I thoroughly enjoy his writing which I find compelling. ... Read more

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"The book is a message of hope and reassurance for laymen, especially aging members of the baby-boom generation alarmed by all the attention being paid to Alzheimer's and imagining worst-case scenarios for themselves."

--Washington Times

Dr. Majid Fotuhi, one of the world's foremost experts in the field of Alzheimer's Disease and brain function, outlines a highly effective plan to guard against memory loss.

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The Memory Cure review
The suggestions in the book are very good.The supplier was very prompt in shipping the book.

What Majid Fotuhi told me.
I met Dr Fotuhi at an aging seminar. He was the keynote speaker and I gave the lunch hour presentation on another related but non-medical topic. I visited with Dr. Fotuhi during a break. I asked him about the benefit of anti-inflammatory medicines like ibuprofen because he had discussed how brain plaque was a contributing factor for Alzheimer's. He told they had a beneficial affect. However, a daily regimen of ibuprofenwould never be recommended due to the so-called risks of stomach irritation.

He gave me a passionate account of his tests of rats involving adding blueberries to their diets. He said the results were phenomenal and that his family has a serving of blueberries with their breakfast most mornings. He recommended that I do the same.

He's a very impressive man and I suggest you see him live if you ever have the opportunity.

I'm not a doctor. This information is not medical advice. I simply wanted to recount an interesting and relevant conversation I had with the doctor.

Informative and useful
The book begins by pointing out that sometimes people and it seems even doctors mistake depression or other health problems which can be treated successful for Alzheimer's disease which may be untreatable.

He then offers a ten step plan for prevention of memory loss, which consists of proper diet, as well as daily physical and mental exercise.Some nutrients that have been found useful for better functioning of the brain are blueberries, spinach, and other fruits and vegetables rich in antioxidants, almonds and other nutrients rich in vitamin E, less salt in diet, as well as general nutrition that contributes to low cholesterol and normal blood pressure.High blood pressure and high cholesterol seem to be detrimental to memory.He further suggests cutting the quantity of food people consume, perhaps in half. Fasting is good.Daily physical exercise envigorates the entire body including the brain.As as the saying goes "use it or lose it", constant mental stimulation, learning new things, solving puzzles, challenging oneself intellectually in different ways through reading or even calculating totals in one's head when grocery shopping are all helpful to keep the brain active and in good shape throughout one's life.

Will I get Alzheimer's Disease?
So many of us worry about whether we might get this disease.
Dr. Fotuhi says that of the many who fear they may get it, only a
very few will get it.

He describes our brain in a very interesting fashion.He explains how our brain stores our memories, and, what amazes me,
how the brain knows what to store.We all know what we were doing when 9/ll happened.We certainly don't remember what we
were doing on Sept. l0!

It is a fascinating read and teaches us a lot about the brain,
and how to protect ourselves from memory loss, about advances
that are being made toward a cure.

An easy book to read-not too scientific.

Highly Recommended, Very Reader Friendly
This recently released book on Alzheimer's disease (AD) is the most reader friendly book I've come across in quite a while.I've seen this book first-hand, and it is impressive.It describes the complicated neurology of the brain in an easy to follow manner.Also, Dr. Fotuhi describes (in plain language) the latest AD research findings and discusses their implications.If I had to recommend only two books on Alzheimer's disease for caregivers it would be this one and, "The 36-Hour Day."In contrast to some books on AD, Dr. Fotuhi's book is optimistic.Not only does he describe how AD develops, but more importantly he discusses what people can do to reduce their individual risk factors for developing AD.I find myself constantly recommending this book to all the families of patients participating in AD research projects I coordinate. ... Read more

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An inspirational tale of one family'slove, devotion and faithWhen I arrived, I approached the figure in the wheelchair. I asked him who I was but my father-in-law did not recognize me. When I tried to help him, he became angry and violent. He tried to get out of his wheelchair and away from me. He yelled, "No! You are not taking me back to Germany! You are all Nazis! You are all trying to kill me." Dad won a Bronze Star Medal for his service during WWII. It took three of us to get him outside to the car. Dad had his fists to me, a growl on his face and threatened to kick me. Then the swearing began .This is a book about the daily trials and tribulations of taking care of a loved one with Alzheimer's Disease. In this Journal I share the feelings of confusion, frustration, and blessings I experienced during my ordeal. I wrote this Journal both for myself and with the hope that it might help others deal with similar situations. It's important for caretakers to know that they're not alone, that others have experienced the same frustrations. Sometimes a caretaker feels very isolated-the world, after all, doesn't stop, despite the sense that your world is frozen in time. I'm hoping that this book will offer comfort to those who find themselves in that world.In this Journal I record the little things I did, daily, to preserve my sanity and provide my father-in-law with as nearly a normal life as possible. It is a tale of thoughts, stories, anecdotes, as well as feelings of helplessness, guilt, happiness, and sorrow.If you feel as though you can and want to see your loved one through this awful disease, then this book will offer a helping hand. The Journal will also be of value to anyone who wants some idea of what to expect from a person suffering from Alzheimer's Disease. Finally, please remember that Alzheimer's affects different people in many different ways. This is my account of living with Alzheimer's. This publication includes testimonials from Maria's husband (Joe's son) and two of his grandchildren who shared Maria's home-care duties. Also features numerous photographs of family events, both in years past as well as during Joe's illness. This is a very touching, human story about families and how they deal with crises, emerging stronger and closer as a result of their misfortune. ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Marie Fostino, married now for 33 years, is a mother of five and a grandmother of four. She believes that life is full of many challenges and lessons to be learned. She's held a variety of jobs over the years: fast foods employee, beautician, professional photographer, nursing home aide and paramedic. She's dealt with all kinds of people, young and old, but nothing prepared her for the loss of a loved one to Alzheimer's. Marie enjoys spending time with her family. ... Read more

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Support for Caregivers
Marie Fostino's book, Alzheimers, a Caretaker's Journal, is a welcome resource for anyone struggling to care for a family member with this heart wrenching disease.The most important aspect, beyond the practical day-to-day experiences shared, is the gift of knowing that you are not alone, that there are others out there who have lived, and are living, what you are going through.Thank you, Marie, for your gift!

When nothing but unconditional love will work
The thing I felt about the book was that it seemed to offer a positive outlook on something - a disease, the downfall of a loved one, the loss of an important connection between father and child -that seemingly had nothing positive to offer. Some of the situations were gut wrenching, and yet, Marie not only came through them, but has now become an inspiration to others who are going through it now. Thats an honorable and difficult task in the face of something so difficult. Reading of some of the situations faced by Marie and her family shows clearly that their journey was wrought with hardship, yet this guide will inspire even the most tireless caregiver to keep giving, keep striving, keep going forward in this thankless journey of giving back to the loved ones who once cared for you and others.

If you are looking for a gift to help an Alzheimer's caregiver, I recommend this book.

True Story for Real People Going Through Hard Times
As the title implies, Alzheimer's A Caretaker's Journal, is about dealing with a family member who has Alzheimer's. The book truly is a caretakers journal. There is little commentary from the author to cloud our opinion. Instead, we get to see into the personal lives of Jim and Marie as they take on the daunting task of caring for Jim's father, Joe. As Joe's dementia worsens, Marie rises to the call of a saint.

The passion of the author was noted throughout the book and my emotions were stirred as I read Marie's account of her time spent with Dad--a man who didn't even know her once he had progressed into the advanced stages of Alzheimer's. "Lady" is what he called his own daughter-in-law.

"Show, not tell" is what I often repeat to my authors when I am editing their books. Marie instinctively did this inAlzheimer's A Caretaker's Journal. She shows us who she is, what she is capable of, and how she managed day by day. Never once did she brag on herself. Using a chronological diary format, she showed us her human frailty and gave us a true picture of what it is like to watch a loved one's mental and physical demise.

I was especially touched that both of the author's daughters gave a short commentary about what it was like to live in the house with their grandfather in his impaired condition. The author's husband, Jim, also shared his thoughts. Therefore, we get to see how this disease affected the entire family. I hope I never have to go through something like this, but if I do, I pray I have the strength and wherewithal to endure and persevere the way Marie did.
Check out Marie's book website at [...].

Yvonne Perry
Author of More Than Meets The Eye True Stories About Death, Dying, and Afterlife

Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
I am the author of this book and I hope it has helped you as you are dealing with this disease. I would like to share a few reviews I have gotton on my web site.

DEAR SWEET MARIE, YOU ARE AN ANGEL. I THINK YOUR BOOK WILL HELP LOTS OF PEOPLE DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION.YOU HAVE A HEART OF GOLD AND IT SHOWS IN EVERY PAGE THAT YOU WROTE. I CAN'T SAY ENOUGH ABOUT YOU.
RICHARD SIMMONS


IT IS ALWAYS COMFORTING TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE WAHEN GOING THROUGH A DIFFICULT TIME. MARIE SHRIVER


I VERY MUCH LIKE THE CASUAL AND COMFORTABLE TONE OF YOUR WRITING.CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BOOK. IT WILL BE A NICE ADDITION TO OUR COLLECTION.MARY ANN URBASHICH-ALZHEIMER'S ASSOCIATION GREEN-FIELD LIBRARY


MARIE YOUR WRITING CERTAINLY PAINTS A VIVID PICTURE, THE PHOTOS TURLY ENHANCE YOUR THOUGHTS AND ANECDOTES AND MAKE YOUR BOOK COME TO LIFE.
BOB DE LUNA, UNITED HOSPITAL FUND

Alzheimer's affects millions of families per year. I hope this book gives you an insight and that you are not alone.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino

Alzheimer's: A Caretaker's Journal by a Living Saint!
Alzheimer's: A Caretaker's Journal by Marie Fostino and published by Seabord Press in late 2007 is one of those rare family caregiver books written in real time. Unlike many caregiving books written as recollections of caregiving experiences from years ago, Fostino's book is fresh, compelling, vivid, and poignant. It accomplishes its aim in helping the caregiver know what to expect.

What a gift! Joe Fostino had a saint for a daughter-in-law! How else can one describe the heroic deeds simply told? The highs, the lows; the joys, the tears; the frustrations, even the anger; and the commitment--yes, the unwavering commitment of a loving mother of five who devotedly cared for her father-in-law in a manner unparalled during the past decade.

Alzheimer's: A Caretaker's Journal begins with a brief history of war hero Joe Fostino and features letters from Joe's son (the author's husband) and two of her five children. Fostino then opens her private journal for the benefit of caregivers, family members, and all who want to learn more about caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease.

If you're a caregiver or plan to be one, do yourself a favor, buy this book! If you know of a caregiver who could use a helping hand, give this book as a gift. If you are a professional, share copies of this book with your clients.

You will be warmly touched and heavenly inspired by the story of St. Marie Fostino, who juggled long work hours while lovingly tending to her father-in-law's day-to-day needs for two years until his final breath.

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The landmark bestselling guide——now updated with the latest essential information

The third edition of this critically acclaimed guide leads you through the realities of caring for a loved one struggling with Alzheimer’s. The author, a nationally recognized authority, details the latest developments in treatment and care options and offers helpful, hopeful advice for getting through difficult challenges. Now fully revised and updated, this edition includes new chapters designed to help caregivers cope with stress and depression and offers information on the latest breakthrough research developments and treatments. Alzheimer’s speaks directly to your vital concerns, including:

• the symptoms and traits of Alzheimer’s, what to expect at each progressive stage, and how to respond to behavior problems
• the full range of treatments and support services available, including tips on how to locate and finance them
• ways to understand your feelings and the impact of grief
• new information on managing caregiver stress and chronic depression in sufferers
• the latest therapies and medical research

With its sensitive and in-depth examination, Alzheimer’s shows how to make the care you give more rewarding and effective and how to make the life of anyone caught in the grip of Alzheimer’s more loving and comfortable.

"Valuable information for families, friends, and caregivers. . . a concisely written, essential resource."–Booklist ... Read more

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Understanding Alzheimer's Will Lighten The Load
This is a book that I have recommended to numerous people in the last few months. Mostly folks who have family members living with this horrible disease, who have little or no knowledge as to it's reality. Many who think of it only as a "memory problem".

Alzheimers: A Caregiver's Guide and Sourcebook, covers an incredible amount of information from both the patient's and caregiver's point of view. The author talks to you at an understandable level as he explains what is known about the intricacies of the disease at this time. His compassion for those dealing with Alzheimer's at one level or another, is comforting. He has dealt with the dispair and confusion that many of us face daily and it is apparent in his presentation.

Although I thought I had a fairly good idea as to what AL is about, this book has helped me in numerous ways. Defusing or avoiding catastrophic episodes was a problem for me, but reading his advice has helped considerably. We are having much fewer problems at this time. I have lowered my expectations and am learning to allow more time for us to prepare and deal with tasks to be done. Not rushing my husband makes a world of difference. There are numerous situations that have improved with the advice and information discussed. I also know that I am "not alone" in battle against this miserable disease and I am going to enjoy the good times we have together rather than "always" bemoaning worst.

Please read "Alzeimer's: A Caregiver's Guide and Sourcebook". It will help you!

Excellent resource
If a family member has been diagnosed with AD, this is a very helpful resource for you to purchase. It provides very clear descriptions of behaviors and how to understand them, as well as respond. I recommend this having read much of what's out there on this subject.

Alzheimers - A Caregivers Guide
Having practiced as a psychotherapist for over 15 years, this is the book I have referred over and over to help family members of those with Alzheimers.It's a wonderful book. Easy to read. Full of practical tools and tremendously supportive for the caregiver.Worth every cent.

What a great book to help you through the tough times!
My mother died of Alzheimer's in January of 2006. This book hepled my father, myself (the only child)and my wife through the whole process. It is realistic and tells one what to expect and how to handle each stage of this terminal illness. I highly recommend this book to the caretaker and his/her family to help them understand and deal with the realities of Alzheimer's.

Great Book
Because a relative of mine has AD, I spent some time at a large local bookstore (BN) looking for the right book.This is the one I picked.I think very highly of it. ... Read more

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Previously published in HC as Dancing With Rose

One journalist’s riveting—and surprisingly hopeful— in-the-trenches view of Alzheimer’s

Nearly five million people in the United States are living with Alzheimer’s. Like many children of Alzheimer’s sufferers, Lauren Kessler, an accomplished journalist, was devastated by the disease that seemed to erase her mother’s identity even before claiming her life. But suppose people with Alzheimer’s are not slates wiped blank. Suppose they experience friendship and loss, romance and jealousy, joy and sorrow? To better understand this debilitating condition, Kessler enlists as a bottom-of-the-rung caregiver at an Alzheimer’s facility and learns lessons that challenge what we think we know about the disease. A compelling, clear-eyed, and emotionally resonant narrative, Finding Life in the Land of Alzheimer’s offers a new optimistic look at what the disease can teach us and a much-needed tonic for those faced with providing care for someone they love. ... Read more

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Dancing with Rose
As a caregiver it helps to read how others cope with the problems and frustrations which occur daily. Reading about how another can find humor in a siuation helps me.

The best book on Alzheimer's
My ninety-year-old mother lives in a "memory care" facility in Eugene, Oregon, that's virtually identical to the one Kessler writes about (in fact, it probably is the one Kessler writes about). I had read a few books about Alzheimer's before a friend handed me Kessler's, but none spoke to me the way Kessler's did. She manages to impart everything that's known thus far about Alzheimer's while telling a compelling story that bares her own heart and giving her own optimistic interpretation of "the land of Alzheimer's."

I gained a new appreciation of the caregivers at Mom's facility, as well as of how fortunate I am that my biweekly visits with Mom are as rewarding for me as they are. I've learned, like Kessler, to enjoy slipping into the Alzheimer's in-the-moment mindframe with Mom and enjoying the freedom it gives. We laugh a lot, Mom and I, and I've simply given up trying to get her to comb her hair or put on clean clothes. Kessler also helped me shed the burden of guilt about not being able to take care of Mom at home.

I especially appreciated Kessler's grappling with the question that every child of an Alzheimer's-inflicted parent secretly asks: Will this happen to me? And how exactly do I want to grow old, anyway? What do I want elder care to look like when my time comes?

Highly recommended to anyone faced with trying to come to terms with a loved one's developing this disease.

Unforgettable!A "Must-Read"
"Dancing With Rose" ("Finding Life in the Land of Alzheimer's") was one of the most tender, poignant and moving stories I've ever encountered.On so many levels, it is memorable.I don't have any personal experience (yet) with Alzheimer's, but this book has prepared me to embrace it in a different way than I certainly would have.I applaud Lauren's courage to admit her fears and weaknesses about her feelings for her mother's condition, and the boldness then to take action on righting that wrong, to pay penance... I read the book when it first came out and think of it often ever since.More directly, I can't think of Oregon now (where I have family), or the compassion the elderly deserve, or facing my fears, without thinking about the valuable insights that "Dancing with Rose" imparts.It is inspiring....I already have ideas for how to help in my own way at Alzheimers centers and similar places.Lauren has shown me the way.

Couldn't put this book down!
I can relate to this book on so many levels. First of all, I was a social worker/admissions director in a nursing home several years ago. So I completely understand the nursing home 'jargon'. Well, maybe I can't completely understand, especially since I didn't do the work of the aides, but the book made it very real. And since I was in the environment, I get it.

I also relate to connecting with the patients, um, excuse me, residents. Though our facility wasn't specifically for Alzheimer's patients, we had our share who were memory-challenged. And quite a few who were not. Either way, I connected with and still think about many, many residents in whom I came to love while I was there.

And lastly, I connect because I also have a mother (and father-in-law) with Alzheimers. My father continues to care for my mom at home even though he is in poor health also. He doesn't think she will get the care she needs in a nursing home. She is in the end-stage of this disease, non-verbal, unable to follow any sense of direction. But, whether fortunate or not, she is very mobile. She reminds me of Rose (character in the book) in this way. Constantly on the move.

All that to say that I LOVED reading this book. There were times I would laugh out loud... And surprisingly, I didn't cry. I'm a cryer. But I related. And I loved it. And I couldn't put it down until I was finished.

Amazing
This book is amazing and powerful.I am so impressed that the writer went in as an RA and shared the experience strength and hope from the perspective of a daughter and as an RA.Extra praise for sharing the work, pay and the lives of the staff memebers who are there in the trenches giving care for pennies a day.I wish everyone would read this book and see how important our elder population is and how much love and gratitude ALL caregivers need and deserve.
Thanks you so much for writing this book!
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Gain exceptional insight into the world of the person with Alzheimer's through this enlightening collection of first-hand accounts. This revised edition of Speaking Our Minds provides an unparalleled view into the day-to-day experience of Alzheimer's through the reflections of seven diverse individuals with the disease.

By interweaving each person's responses from in-depth interviews with her own thoughtful interpretation, dementia expert Lisa Snyder explores the many dimensions of the Alzheimer's experience. As a result, this rich text offers professionals, family caregivers, students, and people who have dementia the opportunity to learn more about:
* The uniqueness of each person s experience and symptoms
* Coping strategies people use to face the changes and losses in their lives
* The changes that are experienced as the disease progresses
* Barriers to living full and dignified lives
* How to identify with and listen to persons with Alzheimer's
* Distinct issues for young-onset persons with dementia

This book is ideal for people with early-stage Alzheimer's and related dementias as well as for anyone who interacts with that person, including professional or family caregivers, friends, and relatives. Discussion questions provide thoughtful material for use in coursework in aging and dementia, support groups, or book groups. The variety of backgrounds and perspectives of each featured person means that you will likely find similarities between the people in this book and your own personal experience.

Whether this is your first introduction to Alzheimer's or you have an extensive knowledge of the disease, you are sure to learn from some or all of the brave and honest people who are featured. This book will transform the way you look at Alzheimer's and how you interact with those who have it. ... Read more

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Nodding my head in agreement
My wife was diagnosed with AD last year at the age of 63.Within months after her diagnosis I had read several books about AD, joined a support group, and gone online at several sites not just to gather information but also to read and post comments on AD message boards.One of the things I now find comforting going through life as a spouse/caregiver of someone with AD is knowing that others have gone before me down the same or similar road ... that others have dealt successfully with some of the same challenges that I am now facing. While reading the stories provided by Lisa Snyder ... both the words of the people with Alzheimer's and the words of the author ... I often found myself nodding my head in agreement or acknowledgment.I understood where those people were 'coming from' ... and the insights provided by the author were right on target.Most of all, I enjoyed the conversational style of the author.I felt as if she and I were sitting together in my living room and she was talking with me as she related those stories.Both informative and empathetic, the author also clearly demonstrates through her profiles how each person with AD is unique.Despite many similarities regarding memory loss and other common AD symptoms, each person with AD truly follows a different path.At times I found myself hoping that my wife would not take the paths of some of those described in this book, but yet there is also much benefit in knowing some of the possibilities that may be just around the corner.The effects of this horrible disease, the challenges as the disease worsens, and yet also the hope and tender moments that can remain a long time despite worsening symptoms are all told through the honest words of those who are living through these daily experiences.I recommend this book highly for spouses, caregivers, and all others closely involved with people with Alzheimer's.

Insights into Alzheimer's disease
Snyder introduces us to seven people in various, early stages of Alzheimer's disease. In their own words they tell stories about what it's like to have the disease. I read the book from cover to cover without ever putting it down.
The book reminds us that every single person deserves to be treated with respect and love and allowed to flourish in their own way. Their stories teach us how to communicate better and how to be better caregivers. This book is a great resource for caregivers and healthcare professionals.
My father had Alzheimer's disease and passed away last year. I only wish I had read this book much earlier.

Rethinking Alzheimer's through the stories of people with the disease
Social worker Lisa Snyder has done a magnificent job of putting a human face on this disease affecting more than 5 million Americans. The seven narratives recounted in this book are filled with information and insights that any newcomer to the disease such as a diagnosed individual, relative or friend will deeply appreciate. Mixing verbatim remarks of men and women with Alzheimer's disease along with the author's solid commentary is a refreshing approach to understanding the disease. These stories are illuminating, sad, inspirational, and informative. Not everyone with the disease can be as eloquent as the people quoted in this book but their perspectives can shed light on the experiences of others who cannot tell their stories. We need more stories like these to be told from the viewpoint of those with the disease. This is beautifully written book that will be a source of help and hope to all who challenged by Alzheimer's disease and related dementias. I often recommended the first edition and will continue to recommend this revised edition to everyone I encounter through my work with the Alzheimer's Association.

Comforting and Informative
I loved this book and can never keep enough copies because I'm always giving one to a friend in need.It's real experiences, thoughts and emotions as told by real people; it is a fascinating read. But for me it was also very helpful; my mother had just been diagnosed with Alzheimers when I first read this book and for me, it was both comforting and informative. Comforting because Ms. Snyder explains and illustrates through real accounts the different ways that people continue to live loving and fulfilling lives with this disease. Before reading this book, I thought there was just one face to Alzheimers but there are as many ways to live with and experience the disease as there are people and personalities.
And this book also gave me a clue as to what Mom was going through, thinking, and feeling and what she might go through in the future. There were inspiring examples of how living environments and lifestyles could be simplified while maintaining much of the person's unique life. One passage that really stuck with me was when Bill, a former journalist, displays extreme sadness in being unable to write any more. Ms. Snyder refrains from giving advice, glossing it over or cheering him up, she shares a moment of loss and silence with him. I have done this with Mom over the years, and she feels respected, less alone and comforted by the sharing.
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You won't be horrified, you'll be fascinated
This Alzheimer's memoir expands into a portrait of old age, dying and dementia. But you won't be horrified by it, you'll be fascinated.

After John Thorndike takes his ninety-year-old father to visit a friend in a nursing home, his father makes one request: "Don't ever put me in place like that." And the author never does. Instead, he moves to his father's house and looks after him for the last year of his life, as Joe Thorndike grows more forgetful and more distant.

The author describes, in beautifully-written passages, the crushing progress of dementia. But he also explores his parents' marriage. He writes about his mother's mischievous years, about his father's devotion to his children, and about Joe Thorndike's fear of "broken hearts, emotions and feelings." It's a rich, disarming portrait of family life.

It comes to a close at Joe Thorndike's death, with the author's hand on his father's chest at the moment his heart stops beating. I've read and reread this scene. We're all headed for something similar, and while death remains a mystery, Thorndike describes it--and his father--with a mixture of tenderness, dismay and elation. Sometimes this book lifted me right out of my seat: I had to stand up and walk around, just to think it over.

And while on the first level this is a book about dementia, it also applies to other diseases. I've been through something similar with my husband, who died at 59 of ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease.) The complex demands of caregiving, all of which I experienced with my husband, are all called up in this memoir, and with surprising candor. When the author is frustrated or annoyed or downright angry, he doesn't hide it. We hear, through his completely understandable reactions, how painful this job can be. But also how rewarding.
The Last of His Mind: A Year in the Shadow of Alzheimer's

Thinking About John Thorndike
I first heard of writer John Thorndike years ago in Santa Fe. A friend of mine at the public library called and said--I just read a great novel by a guy who lives here...It was THE POTATO BARON, which indeed I did love.
I just read Thorndike's memoir about moving to Cape Cod to live with his father who is dying of Alzheimer's. I admit I like books about extremis--death on Everest, survival--and books abut disease. So this would have intrigued me in any case.
But really the pleasure in THE LAST OF HIS MIND is the writing and sensibility. The author is both honest and kind. The strange peace and claustrophobia of taking care of someone who is dying is a lot like being home all day with an infant, and Thorndike captures that. He loves his father, but hopes he won't die before the writer is finished with his subject, not just the son with his father.
Too many such books tend to lament--how could such a brilliant person, oh what a terrible disease. By contrast, Thorndike seems more to observe. It isn't exactly acceptance but rather the writer's narrow path between wanting things to be one way and seeing how they really are.
John Thorndike has written another book about caretaking, an earlier one about raising his son Janir---ANOTHER WAY HOME. This book is a kind of companion to that one. Full of insight, secrets, wishes, fears, and an understanding of what it means to be a person--and superb writing.
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A survey perfect for any general lending library
The Last of His Mind: A Year in the Shadow of Alzheimer's comes from a managing editor of Life who at age 92 in the space of six months stopped reading, writing or carrying on detailed conversations. His one wish was to remain in his home - and his son John left his own home and moved in to help care for him in the face of Alzheimer's. His son's final year with his father offers a candid survey of the disease's progression and makes for a survey perfect for any general lending library.

More than a book about dementia

The Last of His Mind is Thorndike's account of caring for his father during his final year before dying of Alzheimer's.It is much more than a book about dementia, though there is plenty of information about it.It is an examination of his father's life -- he was an author and the editor of Life magazine in its glory years; his parents' inner lives and his own upbringing. When I saw it, I was not inclined to read it, thinking that a book about about Alzheimer's would be depressing and slow going.I picked it up and was immediately drawn into it.I read it in the next day -- a real page turner.The lives described -- Thorndike's and his parents' are interesting and moving.It is as good a memoir as I have recently read.

An enlightened shadow
It is a noble truth that we all die and that the moment of our death is unknown. John Thorndike explores this essential inevitability with searing honesty, fierce grace, deep compassion, and a journalist's curiosity. By guiding his father on the 92-year-old's final journey, the author confronts nagging and unresolved questions about his own childhood while simultaneously entering a powerful realignment with the constellation of his entire family--and the trajectory of his own life. Thorndike displays a novelist's love of language, a storyteller's eye for detail, a detective's instinct for sleuthing, and a son's enduring love for the man who molded him in ways that have John alternately smiling and fuming. If you've ever lost a parent to dementia, as I have, you will identify at once with the harrowing experiences the author describes in this elegant and compelling book. More importantly, you will recognize and appreciate the cascade of profound challenges, both physical and mental, that unavoidably befall the caregiver as well as the patient. It is from this rich and freshly disturbed psychic soil that John Thorndike, a life-long farmer in addition to being a talented writer, grows in ways that he is brave enough to share. We are wiser for it. And Joe would be proud. ... Read more

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Mayo Clinic, Rochester, MN. Consumer text covers how the brain functions and what can go wrong, conditions causing dementia, conditions that may accompany Alzheimer's, theories about causes, treatment of symptoms, tips for daily caregiving, care arrangements, and care costs. Softcover. ... Read more

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very happy with product
I am very happy with my new book.I have a family member recently diagnoised with Alzheimer's.This book will be very useful.Thank you, Candy

Not best option for most
Disappointing. Weak effort from influential Mayo Clinic.

While this book may be a good resource for some, the main audience is of course spouses and families dealing with a loved one's presenting symptoms of early stage Alzheimer's.They (and more and more of 'us') are looking for good basic guides and guidance.This is NOT the book for them or 'us.'

Although collecting lots of decent information, way too much seems of limited relevance to the prime audience.Some of the content now seems to the lay reader rather dated. There is too much space given to multifaceted clinical dimensions and too little to support for spouses and families. But more importantly the book is poorly organized and presented. Overall it exhibits weak editing and/or perhaps the cobbling together of other Mayo publications.

In itself this is unfortunate in any book but with a resource of such importance, with the imprimatur and attendant authority of the Mayo Clinic itself, it is most disappointing.I imagine thousands of libraries have purchased this book based on the Mayo name to a large extent.For one of the most pressing and heartbreaking of health issues facing America, they and their patrons deserve better.

An improved edition of this book should rise to the top of Mayo Clinic's to do list...

Jan Malcheski

Great Info about Alzheimer's disease
My sisters and I come into contact with many people dealing with the devastating disease of Alzheimer's.This book is one that we often recommend, especially to those that want to understand the science behind Alzheimer's.The Mayo Clinic is well respected and people feel confident in the quality of the information provided.Alzheimer's disease is effecting more families every year.It is important that we all learn as much as possible about the disease and that we share that knowledge with others.Mary ...www.alzawareness.com ....Alzheimer's Awareness Source.

excellent resource for all types of dementia/ senility/ not just Alzheimer's
Excellent resource for all types of memory loss/ senility/ dementia/ stroke/ not just Alzheimer's.This book was created by thehighly regarded Mayo Clinic medical center and is meant for the average reader and caregiver. It covers the different ways in which a person can develop health conditions leading to the various diagnoses under the umbrella term: "dementia". Although the book title uses the term "Alzheimer's disease, it is more fair to say anyone with a loved one with any type of dementia could benefit from this book. In general terms, anyone whose loved one is confused,is losing memory, sense of self,becoming paranoid, can no longer handle money, is no longer safe to drive, or to cook, is becoming demented. It is not about mental illness but the forms of changes in the brain at any age, (but usually old age, that leads to these losses of or changes in, identity.)Stroke, vascular disease, even small vascular 'accidents' like "TIA's", alcoholism, diabetes, head injuries, chronic Depression, are all causes, as well as true Alzheimer's disease,(100% diagnosable only on autopsy.) Parkinson's Dementia is another--almost indistinguishable from Alzheimer's but little known (and doesn't always accompany Parkinson's.)All of these lead to years of frustration for the patient as memory fades and dignity is lost, and end in tragedy in the truest sense for patient and his or her loved ones. There is no cure, only some new medications that can slightly slow the process.
However this book is very helpful in having a central section specifically for caretakers, written in clear simple language, that addresses all of the main problems that caring for a memory-impaired, confused, demented person entails. Common sense ideas, down to earth and realistic are provided ("shut off the circuit breaker to stove; remove stove knobs.") Some other points to keep in mind:no one who is aging or aged AUTOMATICALLY becomes senile or confused. It is not a part of aging. If it is happening, the person should be checked out thoroughly-- medically,including screens for depression and nutritionas well.
There are tests to determine cognitive loss, including brain MRI's for brain atrophy, which can be a cause of any type of dementia, not just Alhemer's Disease. Psychologic and neuropyschologic testing in the earliest stages of concern are important to differentiate between dementia and depression for example, also the earlier this is diagnosed the better, as the medications available, though not perfect, are more useful when started early. And, family can step in early while the affected member can participate and make plans for Living Wills, Durable Powers of Attorney, and all of the other highly important legal documents that are ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL or soon will be. Another point made in this book is that 5% of all people feared to have Alzheimer's or some other similar syndrome, when checked out thoroughly by medical professionals are found to have low thyroid, depression, vitamin deficiencies, low grade malnutrition, metabolic problems, or drug intoxication (the elderly are often on multiple prescription medications and over the counter medicines,and often their aging kidneys and livers do not deal with these as a younger person's would and they can build up in their system to an unsafe level.) Therefore all of these need to be ruled out first.
A very thorough book, easily readable, packed full of information in only 210 pages, if you're only going to buy one book on this subject, this may well be the one to buy.

Very helpful book
This book contains not only the latest medical and scientific information on the physical aspects of Alzheimer's, but a "what to do if" section that offers suggestions when specific behavioral problems are encountered.For example, what can the caregiver do when the Alzheimer's patient does not wish to bathe, change clothes for a week, go to the doctors, etc.?This book relieves some of the stress of caring for a person with Alzheimer's. ... Read more